Thread:ApplewoodKindlingInFire/@comment-27324709-20151207055324/@comment-27038933-20151207122743

There is something you guys need to understand, the drama that came up on the live chat does not affect you, besides make everyone say 'let's stop disagreeing' or 'let's be nicer'. There is a huge difference between disagreeing and fighting. But even disagreeing sometimes can upset someone so you apologize that your words hurt them, that they weren't meant to, but you don't take it back. If someone does something you don't like you're able to say 'hey I don't like that,' but don't act bossy, try to be tactful and when the other person reacts and shows that they're upset apologize if they get angry then maybe let a mod step in but if someone does something you don't like say it. The biggest issue with recent drama is other people getting involved in other peoples disagreements and it degrades into a vicious cycle. So yes be nice but we can't turn back the clock, and dramas going to happen everywhere so you're going to have to learn how to deal with it eventually anyways. Also it's you who sets the tone you come in happy, everyone else is happy. So in a way be the change you want to see, that's all.